Irina and Anthony always knew they wanted a wedding with an intimate feel and meaningful moments. They craved simplicity without sacrificing elegance or beauty. While researching venues, Irina stumbled across a private beach home along one of their favorite Washington West Coast beaches. She immediately knew this was the place they would say their vows. Their wedding embodied everything a couple could hope for: coastal elegance, personal touches, and unforgettable moments with close family and friends.

Washington West Coast beaches offer a remarkable balance of rugged beauty and refined charm. Unlike tropical shores filled with bustling crowds and overly commercialized venues, the beaches along the Washington state West Coast provide privacy, intimacy, and a unique backdrop of serene natural landscapes. Couples looking for an elegant yet understated coastal wedding should take inspiration from Irina and Anthony’s special day.

Tips for Planning Your Washington West Coast Beach Wedding

Selecting Your Venue on Washington West Coast Beaches

When planning a Washington West Coast beach wedding, choosing the right venue is paramount. Irina and Anthony chose a private beach house, which was perfect for their family-oriented celebration. Renting a private property typically provides you more control over your event, from guest count to décor decisions. Many private beachfront properties along the Washington state West Coast come complete with winding trails, sea grass-covered dunes, and views that stretch for miles—ideal for stunning photo opportunities.

Before finalizing your venue selection, consider how its location impacts logistics. Ensure easy access for your vendors, caterers, and guests. If accessibility is limited, plan ahead, arrange shuttle services, or share clear directions to avoid stress on your wedding day.

If you’re unfamiliar with Washington beaches, you can get a good overview from Trip Advisors Washington beach list here. And as always, I’m here as a resource for you, too.

Timeless Styling for Coastal Elegance

Irina and Anthony perfectly captured the essence of coastal elegance by incorporating understated decorative elements. They chose a palette that emphasized the natural coastal surroundings—soft whites, subtle blushes, and gentle greens. If you love this soft, elevated look, pick décor that vibes with the beach, not fights it. Let the natural beauty shine.

Simple white taper candles, small single-stem vases filled with delicate blooms, and fruit-inspired desserts lent sophistication without clutter. Pairing crisp linens with soft, romantic lighting creates a refined yet inviting ambiance. For seating, natural wood chairs or benches align beautifully with the coastal aesthetic. Keep table arrangements minimalistic to maintain visual balance and ensure your décor complements the setting rather than overwhelms it.

Choosing Your Wedding Attire for a Coastal Wedding

When selecting your attire, consider the weather conditions typical of Washington West Coast beaches, which are pretty mild. Winter is typically cold and wet, but late spring, summer, and early fall are gorgeous. Fog, cloud cover, and periodic showers are still common, but you’re more likely to get mild temps and cheerful sun.

Irina balanced coastal elegance with practicality by choosing a traditional bridal gown paired with a cathedral veil. Anthony’s classic black suit added a timeless element, ensuring their looks were both elegant and weather-appropriate.

Keep in mind that the Washington state West Coast tends to be breezy and sometimes chilly, even in warmer months. Choose wedding gowns and suits that are comfortable yet sophisticated. Light shawls, jackets, or wraps in soft, neutral tones will ensure you and your guests stay comfortable throughout the day.

Personalizing Your Ceremony and Vows

Irina and Anthony’s use of personal, handwritten vows elevated their wedding to an emotionally powerful experience. Writing your vows allows you to reflect deeply on your relationship, expressing your promises and intentions authentically. Consider a private vow exchange during a first look, as Irina and Anthony did, to create a quiet, private moment away from the crowds.

During the ceremony itself, invite loved ones to participate in meaningful ways. Having parents or close friends say prayers or blessings adds an intimate, heartfelt touch. Focusing on heartfelt moments over grand gestures ensures your ceremony remains personal, memorable, and full of genuine emotion.

Creating an Intimate Reception

After Irina and Anthony said “I do,” their guests enjoyed an outdoor dinner set against the gentle sound of waves. A tented buffet dinner like theirs can help create a family-friendly, relaxed atmosphere. Family-style dining fosters connection among guests, encouraging conversation and genuine interaction. I love that they added some yard games, which everyone seemed to enjoy. It was fun for the kids to play and get some energy out.

As for the food (because we’re all thinking it), add some local flavors, featuring Washington coastal seafood, seasonal vegetables, and fresh fruit. Highlight your coastal theme further with delicate macarons, fruit-shaped desserts, and subtle floral garnishes. Keep seating arrangements simple and comfortable so guests can relax, unwind, and celebrate with you.

Capturing Your West Coast Moments in Washington State

Many of my sessions and elopements take place around the cliffs, mountains, and forest areas (which I love!), but it was fun to change it up with this coastal look. Irina and Anthony’s portraits captured the stunning variety offered by Washington’s West Coast beaches. From sea grass-lined trails and never-ending fields to golden-hour beach strolls, this unique location provided endless photo opportunities. 

Together, we’ll plan ample time to take advantage of your location’s natural beauty. I’ll scout various backdrops, and we can discuss your preferred aesthetic ahead of time so you get the portraits that fit your vision and style.

Golden-hour photography along Washington state’s West Coast beaches almost always yields magical results, no matter what Mother Nature has in store. If possible, we’ll schedule your pictures around sunset to capture the soft, warm glow. 

Your Wedding, Your Way

Irina and Anthony’s coastal celebration demonstrates how simplicity doesn’t mean sacrificing style or sentimental value. This is your day, and you get to do it your way. You don’t have to choose between an elopement or a traditional wedding, and saying “I do” at the beach doesn’t mean you have to dress in a beachy bohemian dress and go barefoot. You can absolutely mix and match until you find a style and setting that rings true for you.

Curious about all the beautiful locations and landscapes the Pacific Northwest has to offer for your big day? I’d love to chat with you about some of my favorites!